Went to the SP's new gym today... must say it has really good facilities, but the first impression you get when you step inside there is that it is pretty empty.. coz there is so much empty space... haha
but the new threadmills and cycles are really cool... especially the one that automatically measures your heartbeat... something that the old gym never had...
really felt weak... must be because I havn't gone for quite some time... did a couple of sets of this and that, and I'm dead beat...
anywayz... the following is written for a person that is close to my heart... thought he doesn't feel that way, this is still for him...
Roles and Characters of the Actives and Passives - by Andrew
Active:
- Initiates dates, setting the time, place and location, according to mutual preferences as speculated.
- Almost always punctual or earlier for the occasion, fashion sense always paid off
- Usually the leader, whether in directions of conversation
- Does not have to be particularly sensitive, however, but should have a sense of identity at all times
- Identity is a key factor, whilst maintaining the guys view of the world, understand that an AJ should not be afraid of expressing emotion
- Anger and rage shouldn't be kept, but discussed and dismissed
- While both parties may go dutch, the active DOES NOT ask for the passive for a threat
- Gifts and presents are not at all neccessary, but if one finds the need, it usually solves alot of problems (not joking)
Passive:
- Sensitive to the feelings of the active, persuasion to reach one party's point of view is indispensible
- Identity is a compulsary permernant factor. Need I say more? A passive is usually the manifestation of the AJ's personality
- Generally VERY emotional
- Anger and rage usually bottles up in passives, but it isn't good for any relationship
- While punctuality is usually an issue with passives, the passive should ALWAYS inform the active that he might be late, lest an argument might arise
- Accept gifts with modesty, return it with physical or emotional touch
- Respect the decision of the active, after all, you can't make up your mind yourself
- Try not to give single word answers
- Act cool, maintaining your identity at all times
The AJ circle is a complicated chain of emotions, each attached to one another, and founded upon the modern concept of materialism. (at least that is what I have realised)
dang you say... I wish that hunk would notice me...
If you want it, then why are you still standing there? Get your freaking workout schedule planned properly! At least, he might notice you next time...
It is possible for a straight to become an AJ. But it is almost impossible for an AJ to return back to his straight life again...
If you are an AJ, remember, nothing on earth is free. If you want something, you have to have something to give in return.
Be it (if you were born lucky) looks, money, intelligence or even lust at its lowest.
A survey done by Fridae.com last year stated that among the GLBT global community
83% said that they wouldn't care for anything else, as long as he/she has the looks
41% said that they wouldn't care for anything else, as long as he/she has the money
39% said that they wouldn't care for anything else, as long as he/she has the persona
15% said that they wouldn't care for anything else, as long as they had a future together
2% said that they didn't care that the person had anything
As you can see, looks are what are on most of the AJs minds, and if you want to get a good standing in the AJ community, brush up on your looks, or consider being a metrosexual =)
Do not fret if you can't get the person that you want... improve yourself, at least, this way, you stand a chance to compete with the ever increasing amount of good looking guys that walk the street now...
I also noticed that the increasing trends among AJs is that many of them are targeting younger and younger guys!
When I first stepped into the AJ community, I was possibly one of the youngest.. that was when I was in late Sec 1...
however, now there are countless secondary school boys who call themselves AJs... I also dunno if what they say is credible or not... but it is true
Paedophiles that are 40+ year old and married are giving thousands of dollars a week to have underage *** with secondary school boys...
and some of them, get the wasting disease even before they reach 20...
its sad...
but its an undeniable fact that Singaporean guys are getting better looking! Keep it up peepz! Soon we will be able to have a community of metrosexuals! hahaha... ah well.. I'll shut up now and go to sleep....
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